zondag 24 maart 2013

Reverse Culture Shock

(a.k.a. "Re-entry Shock", or "own culture shock") may take place -- returning to one's home culture. It can result in difficulty in readjusting to the culture and values of the home country, now that the previously familiar has become unfamiliar.


It was my first week living back in Amsterdam after nearly six years. Early one morning I dropped my kids off at school. A guy opened his front door and tripped over a bicycle parked there by a parent in a hurry. The guy kicked the bike and shouted some swear words unsuitable for kids.

One of the biggest moments in a Dutch child’s life is getting a ‘real’ bike. My first bike was purple with training wheels. It was a gift from my grandparents, who brought it all the way from Germany. When I turned four the training wheels where taken off by my father. Apparently he thought it was time to do it on my own. I did not know how to break, so I stopped by throwing myself on the ground. I still have scarred knees.

My second bike I got it when I turned six. One condition was I had to clean it every Saturday. Wash it with soap and water, make sure all the rusty bits on the rims where gone. I did that maybe twice a year. Too late to get most of the rust off.

The last bike my parents gave me had three gears. I needed those on my daily 10-kilometer trip to school, through rain and snow. I always had headwind: on the way to school and on the way back. For some mysterious, unscientific reason the wind always turned while I was in class. 

I refused to wear rain suit. We had to bike in groups because kids cycling in the opposite direction tried to kick our schoolbags off our bike racks. Very unpopular kids - the ones wearing rain suits - biked alone.

Having a bike got a whole new meaning when I moved to Amsterdam. Most bicycles have a lock that is more expensive then the bike itself. At the age of 30 I had fifteen bikes stolen, by junkies or people who had their bikes stolen. 

Locking your bike is the art of outsmarting a thief. Another art is avoiding the tram rails embedded in slippery, cobble-stoned streets. Always drive askew if you want to avoid getting your tires stuck. One of my biggest bike fears is being hurled over the handlebars in a crowded intersection.

It almost happened with my heavy new bike. I felt it slither as the rubber lost traction on the metal rail, but managed to avoid getting stuck. 

My bike is called a ‘bakfiets’ in Dutch. It is black with a huge brown wooden box in front. It is more expensive than an ipad, seats two kids and four big bags of groceries. It has 7 gears and a 100 dollar lock. 

It’s the Mercedes Benz Janis Joplin sang about. I will respond accordingly when someone tries to steal it. Or tries to kick it.

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